Lord, make me wise like Abigail. When a word was brought to her of disaster hanging over her household, she acted quickly, boldly and with diplomacy.
Quickly, before those set on her destruction could reach her, she sent gifts of food and drink to them.
Boldly, without seeking her husband’s approval or permission, her plan was enacted.
Diplomatically, she bowed before David, took responsibility and asked him to spare himself from burdening his conscience with needless bloodshed. All the while she praised his conquests and acknowledged his godly honor.
Here are the things I can think of that she could have done:
She could have sat down and wept, bemoaning that fact that they would all be destroyed soon. Her pity party would have been well deserved, after all, it was her husband who caused the calamity, not her; she was just the victim here.
She could have gone to her husband with a belittling tirade of accusations and complaining, insisting he get up and do something about it. Or demanded he fight David to defend them all.
She could have met David with a “nobody asked you to protect our shepherds” attitude. Or argued that legally there had been no contractual agreement.
Or she could have packed her things and left her husband to be killed, running to safety, only to return when it was all over. She had lots of options!
My thoughts are not as wise or as noble as Abigail’s. Thank You Father for this example of someone who did not act out of helplessness, or fear, or anger, or self-righteousness, or any other of the characteristics I tend to go to when up against a wall.
Help me remember Abigail’s quickness, and boldness, and diplomacy the next time I am facing a hardship. I think she must have heard from You. Keep my spiritual ears open so I may too. Amen
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As I get older, diplomacy seems to be harder than easier. I want to react and to blurt out exactly how I feel. Abigail is a good reminder there are wiser ways to handle things!
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